Overcome The Fear Of Making Mistakes

Avoiding mistakes doesn’t get you anywhere

Are you avoiding fear-provoking experiences like –
Promoting your business and taking it to the next level?
Texting a funny message to someone you’ve started dating with recently?
Giving a presentation at work about a project you’re assigned to?

If you relate to these examples, you’re probably afraid to take the necessary steps because you might fail at your attempts.

And if that awful scenario happens – you’ll be ridiculed. You’ll feel like a loser, like you’re nobody.

See, having some fear of mistakes can be a good thing; it can help you boost performance. But if the fear of making mistakes paralyzes you from taking action and functions as a dominant pattern, it can cause serious problems.

You fear what you BELIEVE about making mistakes

What’s interesting is that you don’t actually fear making mistakes. Instead, you fear the interpretation and the meaning you give for making mistakes.

I was afraid of taking risks for a long time because I didn’t want to feel like a failure. It bothered me a lot in life; I felt stuck and unproductive.

The status quo kept me safe, so I believed, but it also hindered me from growing. And when you don’t grow – you wilt.

I tried to analyze what it is about making mistakes that’s so intimidating to me… and as usual, it all leads to one direction – our childhood.

Oh man… Here’s what happened in the past when I made mistakes –

When my mom checked my homework and discovered the wrong answers, I got yelled at badly. Trust me, you didn’t want to be around when that happened.

I remember it so clearly, and I even started wallowing in fear when I was doing homework, which didn’t help me come up with the correct answers.

So my child’s brain gathered all of these pieces of painful experiences into a paradigm that says:

“It is not safe for me to make mistakes, so I must avoid them at all cost”.

Even though, when I grew up, I rationally understood that mistakes open the door for learning and improving, I couldn’t get rid of the fear attached to doing the wrong things.

Deep down, I was afraid I’ll get screamed at, that others would think I was stupid, weak, incompetent, and unworthy.

Because if my mom thought these things about me (she didn’t, obviously, but that’s the message I interpreted as a child), then the entire world would treat me the same!

So I must be smart, protect myself, and be as good as possible. I cannot afford to make mistakes.

You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to figure out this is a crappy way to live your life.

But I had lived that way and felt suffocated inside until I’ve had it.

One day, out of the blue, I also had this insight:

Just because my mom had the false programming that mistakes are bad for us doesn’t mean I need to have the same distorted paradigms. I can choose my own beliefs. I can determine my own identity.

That day, I decided that I was ready to face the anxiety that arose when I stepped out of my comfort zone.

How I got rid of the negative interpretations I attributed to mistakes

In addition to my decision to face the anxiety that arises in the face of the possibility of making mistakes, I also created a subliminal recording to help me take the leap from the lame mediocre living to prosperity living.

The subliminal tool enabled me to accept my anxiety until it subsided. Each step I took prompted fears because I entered unfamiliar territories, but soon enough, the fear had been replaced with excitement.

Gradually, the new idea – “it is ok for me to make mistakes”- really sank in and I developed the courage to take more calculated, smart risks to skyrocket my life to the next level.

From someone who used to criticize and judge herself and her failures, I developed self-compassion.

My inner voice stopped emulating my mother’s voice, and I started parenting my inner child the way I wish I would have been treated.

No matter how old you are, it’s never too late to re-parent your inner child.
It’s never too late to be ok with making mistakes.

Use this recording if you want to –

• Shift your mental perception of mistakes
• Develop self-compassion – say goodbye to the inner critic
• See mistakes as growth opportunities
• Feel strong enough to deal with obstacles and mistakes
• Detach your sense of self-worth from making mistakes

* There are Isochronic tones embedded in the track. The base frequency is 432 Hz with 7 Hz to 4 Hz Theta pulses.

Go ahead, make mistakes and use them as lessons to leverage your life.
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