Avoidant Attachment Style – Overcome Relationship Phobia

Avoidant Attachment Style: Always Looking For The Exit Signs

Are you terrified of committing to another person, thinking that will end your freedom?

Do you repeatedly look for reasons to break up with potential partners without giving you and them a real chance?

Avoidant attachment style destroys your love life, though you may not even realize that.

You are so convinced that you’ll lose your independence by committing to someone else, but that exact fear you have is sabotaging your freedom.

In other words – fear is running your life, which is the complete opposite of independence.

Now, I get that you may disagree with it—that’s fine. Unfortunately, many of us tend to defend our paradigms even if they ruin anything good we’ve got.

So let’s go deeper and see the main features of the avoidant attachment style:

• You believe that relationships equal a loss of freedom
• Obsessively trying to find flaws and imperfections that justify your urge to leave
• Convince yourself you did the right thing because that person wasn’t your type
• You can’t handle intimacy and the vulnerability of the other side scares you
• Avoiding expressing vulnerability yourself (because you might appear weak and unattractive)

And what are the results of this type of attachment style?
– Loneliness.
– Shallow connections with others.
– Disconnection from your needs.

You Want It, But Can’t Have It

See, it’s not that you don’t want to have a meaningful bond with someone else. That’s not the case.

As a matter of fact, as a social creature, you crave warmth, connection, love, and belongingness.

But at the same time, you experience a massive flood of anxiety when the relationship transitions from the fantasy land into real life.

You can’t handle the pressure because your limiting beliefs contradict your natural desire for these things.

It’s a cycle that leaves you suffering because you’re longing badly for something that you can’t allow yourself to have.

Every time things get serious with someone, it becomes a real threat to your independence.

So you end the relationship, before it even had the chance to begin, by finding imaginary or real flaws in your partner to justify your actions.

The defects you find are protecting you from getting sucked into something you just can’t let yourself have: deep feelings for someone else.

Do You Seek Real Freedom? Let Go of The Fear of Commitment

This session can help you become honest with yourself, as you will become aware of the stories you make up in your mind.

The healing recording will gradually help you melt away the walls you built around your heart as a defense mechanism against rejection.

The base frequency used in this track is 639 Hz which is part of the ancient Solfeggio scale. It’s associated with feelings of love of self, love of others, and forming connections.

The 10 Hz Alpha waves will put your mind in a relaxed and calm state to increase the receptiveness to the messages.

As you use it regularly, you will begin to embrace different thoughts that you’ve never had before, such as –

“Hey, I enjoy spending time with this person”; “I am curious to get to know him/her better”; “I really see a future with him/her”.

In addition, check out the book ‘Attached’ to better understand your attachment style.

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If you wish to break free of the avoidant attachment style and form a secure mindset of attachment, use this subliminal meditation.

Don’t worry; it won’t force you to commit to someone else.

It will gradually help you let go of the armor you’ve been working so hard to keep.

Finally, you will have the power to make your own decisions and develop a deep connection only with the person you truly love.

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