Let Go Of The Need For Approval

Stop Seeking Validation From Outside of Yourself

Do you often tell people what they want to hear?
Are you being someone others would find impressive?
Constantly worrying incessantly about what others think of you?
Fearing criticism and holding yourself back as a result?

Letting go of the need for approval and validation from others feels like an impossible task. From the day you were born, you learned the wrong message: that your worth is dependent on others.

For instance, we needed to receive praise from our parents, “I’m proud of you for your grades.” We wanted so badly to be validated by our caretakers that we tried to do anything that would please them.

Usually, you received this approval when you achieved things, rather than because you existed.

This Programming Was Downloaded Into Our System

– “I need others to approve of me so that I can feel good about myself.”
– “I need to have successes in life to be validated.”
– “If others like me, then I am worth something.”

But these paradigms are wrong at their core. You ARE good enough just by being you. You don’t need to prove yourself to anyone or seek others’ permission to feel like you’re somebody. You don’t need others’ approval to feel good about yourself; you can become the sole authority for validating yourself.

This false conditioning is one of the most stubborn concepts to undo because it goes all the way back to the day you were born, so there are a lot of layers to remove.

When you finally get rid of this misconception, this suffocating negative core belief that “I am someone only when others think well of me,” you will experience true freedom.

But until that happens, you’ll keep doing what others want for you and from you.

How does seeking approval of self from outside sources keep you stuck and miserable?

By giving your power away to others, you avoid taking chances out of worrying others will judge you, laugh at you or dislike you.

You remain stuck in your comfort zone, not moving an inch, not putting yourself out there to explore new growth opportunities, just to not upset anyone. You don’t dare take risks that may bring a disapproving state or rank low on the social status meter.

You end up rejecting exciting opportunities that can take your life to the next level, but just the thought of how others will respond to that leaves you in the fear cycle.

But worse of all – you miss your chance to learn to approve of yourself.

Year after year, your dreams are nothing but dreams, not even close to being ever achieved.

My Embarrassing Past

I used to seek approval from others and be a people pleaser, and it was excruciating. I used to neglect myself, my needs, and my values so that others would like me.

Apart from losing my sense of self and identity in this pathetic mindset, the need to be liked never made me feel better.

Even when my cheap manipulations to get approval worked well, I felt worse because I was cheating on myself.

I ditched myself. People liked the mask I had presented, and not my authentic being. Heck, I didn’t even know what my authentic being was…

Now, it’s all behind me. The subliminal messages I listened to helped me release this toxic programming for good, and it can also help you get to this state.

Yes, you will experience difficulties along the way because there’s enormous resistance to this subject.

You might feel anxious about being yourself, but you will have to teach yourself to tolerate this anxiety over people’s disapproval of you and become comfortable with it.

Do yourself a favor and shift your paradigm. Set yourself free.

Start making decisions based on what’s best for you instead of what others will approve.

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