Overcome Commitment Phobia Subliminal Meditation

Healthy Commitment Is Far Away From What You Think It Is

Why are you afraid to commit to relationships?

Why do you escape before you get too close every time you meet someone your type and things look promising?

Hey, don’t get me wrong. Don’t force yourself to stay in a relationship with a partner you don’t feel compatible with.

Eventually, you won’t be able to bear the pressure. Listen to how you feel, but at the same time – question it:

WHY do you feel this?

Where is the fear of commitment coming from?

Are you simply afraid to get too close, or is it that specific you don’t feel compatible with?

Fear of Giving up Your Independence

It’s hard to admit you have commitment issues, mainly because you’ve convinced yourself so well all along with stories like –

• “We’re just not meant to be together”
• “She/he is not the one for me”
• “I’m just so swamped with work, I don’t have time to invest in anyone else”

With all due respect to these stories, they’re nothing but excuses that justify your programming – “it is not safe for me to get attached to someone else”.

The base of fear of commitment is the fear of getting involved with someone, and the fear of that someone leaving you one day. Whether emotionally or physically.

You may have developed a fear of commitment in your childhood because of overbearing, controlling, or neglecting parents that didn’t meet your needs.

Perhaps you were not given the freedom to establish a powerful sense of self, voice your opinions and needs, hang out with friends or participate in extracurricular activities.

To you, commitment may mean

Losing your freedom… Perhaps you view commitment as a prison where you cannot be yourself or pursue the things you enjoy.

Or giving up on your identity and free will, sacrificing your needs to please others.

OR fear of abandonment – the fear that you’ll be rejected and your heart will be broken. Again.

The truth is fear of commitment stems from false perceptions.

In a healthy relationship, commitment doesn’t mean all those things listed above.

What Healthy Commitment Looks Like

A healthy commitment is about sharing your life experiences, building a solid foundation of partnership, making room for another person, and, at the same time – learning to grow and evolve as an individual.

These two aspects – individualism and togetherness are not contradicting one another. They complete each other.

Only through relationships, you can really grow. Relationships help you see all the parts in you that require healing.

A healthy and harmonious relationship will not deprive you of who you are or the things you love. Committing to someone you love will not come at your expense.

On the contrary, you will open your heart and do things for another person because you choose to, not because you have to.

A healthy, committed relationship will enrich your life, help you evolve as an individual, and create an experience that you will unlikely be able to attain on your own.

Escaping Relationships Is Escaping Yourself

If you say goodbye to potential partners, time after time, without even understanding why you’re so afraid, is hindering your overall happiness.

See, as social creatures, we do need relationships, not in a needy, clingy and desperate way, but as a natural need for connection. You’re not a loner wolf, even if you’ve convinced yourself you are.

If you tend to run away every time you have an argument or have an unmet need, feel slightly rejected, or when things are going smoothly, it freaks you out – stop for a moment. Don’t rush your usual breakup reaction.

When you’re too haste to act, you ignore the internal wounds that demand your attention. Listen to these wounds; they need to heal.

Explore what you’re running away from – Were you ignored and neglected as a child? Nobody ever listened to what you needed, so you stopped expressing your wants? Were you not seen at all, almost invisible?

Use these current painful experiences in your relationships to look inside, understand yourself, and connect with your inner child.

Rather than running away, try to communicate your needs with your partner. Ask for what you need. Speak your feelings with your partner, and give them the chance to really see you. You have no idea what a relief you’d feel, to finally let it out.

Creating an Empowering Relationship

If you’re ready to let go of the fear of commitment and embrace new perceptions, this subliminal mp3 may be what you need!

Clear the emotional blocks that made you terrified of genuinely connecting with another human being.

Let go of the toxic belief it’s not safe for you to connect… love… share… be vulnerable… to be there for someone else.

Let go of the belief that relationships will chain you down and you’ll lose your personal freedom. It doesn’t have to be like that.

You can build a relationship that can meet your core needs and foster growth while providing you the freedom to keep doing the things you enjoy.

Are you ready to wear your heart on your sleeve?
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