Stop Being Critical Of Others

Find Out Why You’re So Judgy

Let’s try to figure out why your default mode is set on criticism and how to end it without feeling like you’re being inauthentic or fake.

What stands behind your tendency to criticize everything and everyone?

Why are you quick to find flaws that don’t even exist in many cases?

What is making you overly controlling in your relationships?

In addition, I will suggest alternative approaches and share with you my secret for ways to change your judgmental mentality once and for all.

Are you quick to judge and criticize others?

“God, she doesn’t stop talking! Can’t she see I have no interest in what she is saying?”

“He clearly didn’t look in the mirror before leaving the house.”

“She eats constantly; no wonder she can’t lose weight.”

“The service here is outrageous” (you say that every time you go out).

Does this sound familiar?

I encourage you to think about how often you have critiqued those around you, whether in their face or in your head.

the ongoing tendency to point out imperfections is emotionally draining you of any uplifting vibration of love, peace, and fulfillment, and you simply become… bitter.

The Effects On Your Soul

When you act with excessive criticism towards others, you are convinced it serves you somehow. If you didn’t secretly believe you were getting something out of it, you would not continue this behavior.

It is a protective mechanism you developed in the past, probably in your childhood. Maybe it served you back then, but does it add value now?

It not only doesn’t serve you in the long run but also harms you in ways you are not even aware of.

Think about how many wonderful opportunities you have missed… the terrific people you have disqualified, and the number of life-changing lessons you have rejected only because they were not aligned with what you thought was right.

You see, a critical personality is nothing but a bunch of limiting beliefs about what you are sure is correct, right, and legitimate; and all the rest, which is different, simply doesn’t count.

But people are stupid, and I am better

The judgmental behavior is in fact, not about them, but about you. In other words, the criticism camouflages the things you do not like about yourself. But since you cannot handle your own shortcomings, you mirror them back to others.

If you are critical of others, you might be convinced that others are stupid because they do not view reality through your lenses.

But do you know all? What if your view is missing details or distorted? What if you still haven’t figured out all the pieces of the big picture that you will see in 5 or 10 years from now?

Somehow, along the way, you unconsciously chose this protective mechanism of putting others down to feel good about yourself. Sure, you’re not doing this on purpose or because you’re an evil person (unless you’re a Narcissist, but chances are you won’t even bother to read this if you are one).

We are not perfect, even though you may believe you’re closer to perfection than others. The reason we came to this world is to grow, evolve, and progress from this current mindset toward a more transcendent one.

Therefore, every time you are critical of others according to your narrow point of view, which is currently under construction of growth, it only pushes you back down the path.

In other words, you are battling against yourself. You might think that being critical push you forwards, but it only prevents your development. Therefore, you are working against your own nature.

For example, you find yourself criticizing your overweight friend. It is true some love to eat, or maybe they are emotionally hungry and the food is compensation for something that is lacking. It might provide them comfort or relief.

No matter what the reason is – this is their weak spot. So what? You probably have at least one soft spot you are struggling with.

But your fragile ego cannot bear the option of pointing blaming figures toward yourself or facing all the sides in you that you’re not proud of or require healing. So you have to take out your frustrations on others to protect yourself from looking inside your soul.

You might fear public speaking, but your friend, who is overweight, that you are so sure that you are better than, can quickly go on stage and win the crowd’s attention.

You see, those you criticize have things you do not have. And this is the beauty.

Being critical of other people does not allow you to see the different layers of those you are harsh on.

In addition, the flaws you see may be entirely in YOUR head!

Finding fault with those that don’t fit into your limited worldview makes your world smaller, not bigger.

No matter how old you are or where you live. It is possible to make a change. The only thing that prevents you from doing it, is the hindering thought that you can’t.

There are countless examples of people who shifted their mindset, affecting every aspect of their lives.

Say Goodbye to Your Old Self

Ask yourself – do I have ALL the information?

Are you certain you know everything you need to know about the situation?

Are you absolutely sure in what context that person said the things he said? Do you know 100% what he meant?

It is a waste of your time to hate and rage before knowing the full facts.

Be aware of your inner dialogue

One of the most challenging things to do is to be aware of the automatic chatter that fills your head.

However, putting effort into it is a small price compared to the enormous benefit you can earn.

Here are a few examples of inner dialogs you can have that challenge your critical tendency:

“He needs to dress fancier when going out.” – Why? On the contrary, he is dressed for his own comfort, without trying to impress others.

“This bike-rider is driving in the middle of the road, what an idiot!” – Do you know what it feels like to bike from his angle?

Maybe he got injured in an accident when he was biking on the side of the road. The bike rider might feel safer being seen in the middle. Or maybe, he plans on turning in a bit. Or perhaps he is just inconsiderate; that’s also an option. But why allow someone else to take you out of your center?

“She speaks so slowly, it is really annoying.” – This is how she speaks. If this annoys you, you might want to check with yourself why this bothers you, because it has nothing to do with her.

Could it be that you have issues with not being in the moment and always thinking about the next one? Or perhaps you have patience problems, are always in a rush, and have trouble listening to others?

Reshape your mind

Now that you realize you are being critical of others because of your own paradigms, you can choose to convert them into a robust and healthy belief system that will serve you much better.

You don’t need to go through this change for others, but for your own sense of peace.

In order to do so, you need to rewire your brain to embrace a better attitude that will open your heart and mind. Subliminal commands are by far my preferred method to induce rapid results.

The hidden messages have much more impact than hypnosis, guided meditation, willpower, or even motivation. These are positive affirmations that bypass your critical, natural, resistance. How come? Because you cannot hear them.

If you do not hear the statements, you cannot reject them so they can easily get absorbed in your subconscious.

Thousands of people did it worldwide. Now, it is your turn.

This audio touched the lives of thousands of people worldwide and supported them in ending the critical behavior.

The tracks I offer are recorded with top-notch software, solid knowledge, and rich experience. Moreover, the covert suggestions are accurately formulated to influence the brain quickly and easily.

I got your back

My powerful formula is designed to help you establish a new mentality. You will turn from a person who is used to complaining about people, situations, and circumstances into a calm and grounded person who is open-minded, self-assured, and accepting of others.

From now on, finding what is wrong should not be part of your lifestyle. Not only that, but the defects you once found in others will not appear as bad anymore; you will appreciate the beauty of their differences.

Moreover, you will spot negative and critical people instinctively and take a step back from them. Others will feel the positivity you radiate, want to know your secret, and seek your company and closeness.

The affirmations of this recording:

I accept others and what they offer with much love
My focus is directed towards the good things in people
My life is better as I radiate love and acceptance
It makes me happy to focus on the positivity of situations
When my heart is open to others, I attract wonderful opportunities
Accepting the difference in others enriches my life
The differences in people makes them beautiful and special
It is okay to let go of criticism and convert it with wholehearted acceptance
I am allowed to change and become a better person for myself and others
I balance perfectly between my boundaries and enabling people to be themselves
I joyfully encourage my loved ones to be themselves when in my company
I let go of the small things